Which is one of those things where, yeah, it happened, but asteroids also hit the Earth occasionally and we all still leave our houses without wearing full-body protective Plexiglass domes. He might be running from a bad relationship with a woman his age. It's great how you guys are on the same emotional level, right! It's the emotional version of going from breast buds to boobs! If he had a nasty breakup with (or for older men, a nasty divorce from) someone in his demographic, there's a good shot that's why he's with you — someone who, ostensibly, can't hurt him. (Wrong.) He's in a different generation than you; he shouldn't be a decade behind emotionally.
" Puke.) But mostly, it's the fact that he's your first.Not necessarily just sexually, but myriad other ways, too: The first guy you watch with, the guy who buys you a copy of Pink Floyd's "Dark Side of The Moon," the first one in the passenger's seat as soon as you get your learner's permit...Although a difference of a few years may go unnoticed, a larger age gap may pose potential pitfalls.Relationships vary between couples; however, some common problems may arise in relationships where a younger woman is dating an older man.This may not be compatible with your young, carefree lifestyle. An older guy is likely to have established who he is as a person and what he wants from a potential partner.
However, what you think you want in your late teens may not be the same as what you require when you hit 30.Whether or not you tell your parents about him or not, it's a lose-lose.If not, the sneaking around, lies and secrets will strain your relationship. Sleeping with him might be a bigger emotional deal for you than you think.That's like valuing a 30-year-old because he has the math aptitude of a middle schooler.15. Everyone has different opinions when it comes to an age gap in a relationship.Being the older, wiser man is a power trip for him.