That swath of generic ideas has an actual impact on culture and society, too.
How many jokes have been made at Kim Kardashian's expense because of her history of dating black men?
Skepticism towards black men/white women relationships is a longstanding and well-documented part of our cultural fabric in America. I'm not a "black man" who "dates white women." I'm a person.I have my own unique experiences and some of them include having dated women who are white, but because interracial dating is such a historically tense and loaded subject, it's hardly ever looked at with any understanding or compassion for the people personally involved.White women range from those so intrigued by black men that it veers into fetish to those so reluctant to date black men that it feels more racist than preference-driven.These are generalizations, of course, but they are attitudes that I've personally encountered.What I look for in a partner is wit, charm, warmth, and intelligence. Seriously people why try to put a mold on it........find someone you are attracted to and them with you and go with it.
If he makes me smile when I'm with him, and I find myself sexually attracted, the externals really don't matter much at all.....they're just part of him and come with the package. You stated that your personal preference is tiny women... I have had 3 long term serious relationships and none of them were the same type of man.........limit yourself by putting them into groups?
There is something extremely satisfying about hearing how I make them feel safe, or protected, but I would never turn down the opportunity with someone who is taller, thicker, etc. Its just a preference, like some women have for taller guys or shorter guys. Doggy meant that my legs were nearly closed and he was nearly in the splits.
If they are desirable to me, I'm not going to fight my instincts to fit into some kind of cookie cutter set of expectations.
so I would suggest (and i'm going out on a limb here...) that tiny women prefer guys that are not 'big'.... Ha, ha, I just had this discussion with someone just the other day.
I like a big man but by that I mean tall and toned! My fantasy gir is tall, thin with small breast, a cup or smaller. I'm 5'4" and I was in an LTR with someone who was 6'4".
I'm 4ft 9in but don't mail me cause I'm not tiny and don't plan to be I'm a healthy weight for my height and stay in shape. I'm bigger than average, and by no intent of my own have dated many smaller women. and typically I look for someone taller and yes, more fit than I am. I was told once that I was one step away from being gay because I like flat breasted women. I'm 5'4" and I was in an LTR with someone who was 6'4". While I'm long-waisted (short legs) it still wasn't enough to make certain positions easy for us. Me on top, couldn't lean down for a kiss easily without losing our connection. The image of this reminds me of someone I used to date. She and I would have to do some funny positions at times to make it all work out...work in, of course. Anyway, we worked it all out, but it was funny at times. That was me in my over excited state while trying to get her legs up on my shoulders not paying attention to the fact that I'd be slowly creeping closer to the edge of the bed.